Questions And Answers About Mediation

At the Nashua law firm of Wolfson & Bernazzani, PLLC, we are proud to represent individual clients in mediation sessions or provide services as neutral mediator. We are big believers in mediation, and we will be happy to answer any questions you have, including:

We Have A Great Deal Of Assets And Children. Is Our Case Too Complex For Mediation?

No case is too complex for mediation. Your trained mediator will be prepared to discuss every possible issue. When necessary, experts in child care, property division and other relevant subject matters will come in to help work through any thorny issues.

Will I Have To Go To Court?

In New Hampshire, you will never have to appear before a judge if you and your spouse can successfully complete the mediation process. As a neutral mediator or as your attorney, Xiorli Bernazzani can prepare and file all of the necessary paperwork to help you complete your divorce. With family courts overwhelmed and overbooked with work, mediation can help you get through a divorce quickly without having to worry about lengthy court delays.

Do I Still Need My Own Lawyer?

While a neutral mediator is usually an attorney, the mediator will not be able to give you independent advice to benefit only you. It is important that both spouses each have their own attorney to provide necessary guidance and to review any final agreements. Your lawyer can prevent you from agreeing to something that can cause you harm in the future.

Can We Determine Child Custody Through Mediation?

Absolutely. In fact, we have found that mediation is a much better way for divorcing parents to work out issues regarding child custody than traditional litigation. If your children are still young, you and your ex-spouse will have to continue to co-parent for years to come. Working together in mediation will help prepare you for the future, and maintaining a good, working relationship will also help your children adjust with this new phase of their lives.

What If We Cannot Agree On Everything?

While rare, it is possible that you and your spouse just may not be able to find common ground. The benefit of mediation is that it provides a great deal of flexibility. You can continue to have more sessions with your mediator in an attempt to reach an agreement, or you can elect to take the matter to litigation. It is important to remember that in litigation, however, you will not be in control of the outcome.

If you would like to learn more about mediation and its benefits, please contact us today to schedule a free consultation. Call our office in Nashua at 603-272-6008.